7 Ways To Become Happier

7 Ways To Become Happier

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Spicy Korean Cold Noodles (10 minutes!) + Intro on Ayurvedic

Spicy Korean Cold Noodles (10 minutes!) + Intro on Ayurvedic

  I am currently studying Integrative Nutrition and one of the theories I am very interested in is the Ayurvedic concept. It is originally from India and it is a holistic healthy lifestyle that has been practiced for centuries. The concept of Ayurvedic is all […]

Thanksgiving vs. Appreciation

Thanksgiving vs. Appreciation

  It’s THANKSGIVING friends!!! Although I personally didn’t grow up with this celebration and therefore don’t celebrate it (I’m from The Netherlands remember) Yet I’m fascinated by others who do. I see it in American movies, TV series, where they have big feasts and gatherings […]

What is Intermittent Fasting?

What is Intermittent Fasting?

  In-ter-mit-tent fasting. I see it everywhere, Instagram, Youtube, so I thought what is this all about. Right before my holiday to Hong Kong and Taiwan I started my journey in Intermittent Fasting (IF). After four weeks, four whole weeks,  I can say that I […]

Easy Tropical Smoothie Bowls

Easy Tropical Smoothie Bowls

Originally from the Netherlands, this moment of the year would be a very depressing month in Amsterdam. The transition phase from Fall to Winter results in cold, rainy, windy, dark, perhaps also snowy days.  You wake up in the morning in darkness, you come home from […]

How To Pursue Your Passions!

How To Pursue Your Passions!

  Do you sometimes have a hard time fitting yourself in a conventional career box? I do. There are so many things that I was pursuing, yet it was all under this umbrella of entrepreneurship. The problem was that I constantly felt ashamed and self-conscious […]

Let’s Talk About Fear

Let’s Talk About Fear

  I used to be afraid of many things. Afraid of the dark (still now and then), for insects (God help me), for the dentist, public speaking, horror movies, sickness and to gain weight. I’ve spent too much time to be afraid. What you focus on will […]

Amazing Vegan Pasta Bolognese

Amazing Vegan Pasta Bolognese

Since eating mainly a plant-based diet, I try to invent a vegan variant for all my favorite dishes. Of course, a classic Bolognese sauce could not be missed in my repertoire. The kids and Andrew are love this classic dish so the pressure was quite high. […]

10 Signs You Are Gluten Intolerant

10 Signs You Are Gluten Intolerant

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RAWnola. The No-Bake Sister of Granola.

RAWnola. The No-Bake Sister of Granola.

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12 Tips How to Practise Self-Care

12 Tips How to Practise Self-Care

“To experience peace does not mean that your life is always blissful. It means that you are capable of tapping into a blissful state of mind amidst the normal chaos of a hectic life. ” – Jill Bolte Taylor With a demanding career, a full […]

Coconut Goji Berry Smoothie

Coconut Goji Berry Smoothie

I’m so fortunate to live in this part of the world: South East Asia! I’m born and raised in The Netherlands and moved to Indonesia in 2013. Our tastebuds had quite a ride since then. Food is much more flavorful on this side of the […]


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12 Tips How to Practise Self-Care

12 Tips How to Practise Self-Care

“To experience peace does not mean that your life is always blissful. It means that you are capable of tapping into a blissful state of mind amidst the normal chaos of a hectic life. ” – Jill Bolte Taylor

With a demanding career, a full on social life and running a smooth household we (women) often forget to take care of ourselves. This in a time where self-care is high on the agenda.

Under self-care we understand the actions and behaviors that help us to prevent health problems, and give us benefits by improving our mental and physical health. It is an essential part of a healthy lifestyle. If we take care of ourselves, we are likely to see improvement in just about all aspects of our lives. It’s a positive influence on your relationship and friendships, but also on your work or financial situation. In addition, if we choose to take care of ourselves, we also tend to take care of others. This completely makes sense. If your cup runs over, you need to share it with others. 

So here you go, 12 tips to get you started right away on how to incorporate self-care in your daily life:

1. Spend time in nature

Perhaps you’re stuck on the couch with the reason to slow things down and ‘take care of yourself’, but a better alternative is to go outside and surround yourself with green (trees) or blue (that vitamin sea!) It’s a simple way to improve your mental and physical health. You get energy, your brain gets a boost, and you feel more alive.

2. Sleep enough

With a busy schedule, it is tempting to shorten your night’s rest and enjoy only five to six hours. But we really need more than that so our body and mind can recover from a busy day. It is recommended to take between seven and nine hours a night. Too much sleep is not good either again. I would say eight is perfect. I repeat myself again: perfect. Meaning if you don’t get eight hours of sleep, don’t stress. Find out what works best for you. 

3. Do not get too busy

Don’t make a fuss about small unimportant things that can lead to stress. And we all know that stress is bad for our health. It is an attack on the body and it is bad for your short-term memory (hello forgetful mama’s!) In addition, stress causes you to absorb fewer nutrients. So make sure you don’t stress too much. A complete stress-free life is not realistic, yet be aware of the amount of stress you allow in your life. 

4. Smile more often

‘Laughter is the best medicine’ is often said. Try to laugh as often as possible, with your partner, your friends, your colleagues or just with yourself. Are you not really in the right mood? Just fake a smile. It’s proven that even a fake smile cheats your brain and give you a good feel like a real smile does. Besides that, it’s free. 

5. Dance away

Dancing is not only physical for you, it also improves your mood and body image. By dancing you learn to let go and you can lose what you can’t describe in words. Above all, dancing is also the ultimate stress buster. Dancing is one of the most effective ways to make you feel better, because stress hormones are chased and your testosterone level is boosted. Sumba class anyone?

6. Listen to music

Sometimes you are in the car or walking in a store and suddenly you get a smile on your face. The reason why? You hear your favorite song and this makes you happy. But even if you’re already happy has listening to music a positive impact on your emotions, as it intensify your happy feelings even more. 

7. Eat healthy

Nutrition not only has a major influence on your physical well-being, it also affects your mood and your brain. This is because certain foods can affect the neurotransmitters in the brain (which are associated with our feelings). Eat mainly fruits and vegetables (research shows that berries can boost your brain), nuts and healthy fats.

8. Scream and let go of frustrations

It’s a good way to blow off steam and research shows that it can also reduce physical pain. But if you do, do it at home, where no one can hear you. No judgements. I’m fully supporting you. 

9. Make time for sex

Sex removes stress, shakes your brain and makes you look younger. If there’s no partner in your life at the moment. No worries. A good exercise in flirting and having an open attitude towards people you find interesting will do the trick too. Most importantly, don’t rush into anything.

10. Move regularly (preferably outside)

That doing sports are good for your body and mind, we probably already know. Do you normally go to the gym? Skip it one time and do your workout in the open air instead. Research shows that outdoor sports enhance mental health and can reduce stress, anger and depression.

11. Cuddle more

Hugging gives you an oxytocin boost that makes you less anxious, causes a reduction in stress hormone cortisol, stimulates release of serotonin and dopamine, and miracles for your immune system. Need I say more? Go hug the person next to you. 

12. Go on a holiday

In the spirit of taking ‘good care of yourself’, a holiday can not be missed. Whether you are going to a tropical island or just going on a holiday in your own country, it doesn’t matter. It’s about getting out your comfort zone and spending time with loved ones or friends. And what about the joy of holiday preparations? Research shows that the biggest effect on happiness is not seen during or after a holiday, but before the holidays! 

I hope you find these tips helpful. I would love to hear more from you so hit me up on my Insta and Facebook. If you want to receive more articles about health and wellness, don’t forget to subscribe to my newsletters in the box below.

With love and gratitude xx